If I ever have girls
by Daragh Fleming
If I ever have girls
they’ll be feared by weak men
But to everyone else
they’ll be a consistent friend
They’ll never lack meaning
they’ll be gentle and kind
while breaking every glass ceiling
They’ll take up space and they’ll like what they like
They won’t be taught to reduce themselves or hide
My girls will be feared by weak men
They’ll demand respect
because they deserve it
They will always know love
and never feel they have to earn it
They’ll know their value is inherent
has nothing to do with their looks
They will be leaders, be healers
right wrongs, write books
They’ll be mothers one day if they so choose
But their value won’t be defined
by the use of their wombs
They will be whatever lives in their hearts
They will know dreams
are there to be chased from the start
My girls will know poetry and song
They know I will listen when something feels wrong
They will learn that women are too emotional
is an original lie
And they will not grow up
with a father who refuses to cry
So yeah
my girls will make some weak men
shake in their knees
They won’t be the women society expects
They’ll be the women society needs
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